SACRED UNION
A Life-Changing Program for Couples Who Want Profound Sex and Wholehearted Intimacy
Do you want to rise deeply into love together and have the best sex you have ever had?
Susan and Tom love each other but didn't have a great sex life before they participated here. Mike and Jo got frequently stuck in negative cycles of communication. They regularly found themselves feeling unsafe and unable to have sex. Both of these couples longed for deeper intimacy. They wanted to expand their sex life and their capacity to love each other.
'Sacred Union' is my 3-months signature group coaching program for couples who want to elevate their relationships to new heights through sexual and spiritual practices.
This program is rooted in modern couples psychology and uses a tantric approach. Tantra is an ancient technology that facilitates experiences of UNION within, with each other and with UNIVERSAL LOVE through liberating unconscious patterns and dissolving the ego.
The program looks at relationships in a holistic way. This includes understanding attachment styles, nervous system regulation, better ways of communication, and expressing emotions, as well rituals to deepen sexual love-making.
It is a journey that I recommend every couple taking who has an interest in learning what it takes to create True Love.
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed."
Carl Jung
INTRODUCING...
THE 3-MONTHS
GROUP COACHING JOURNEY
What's included?
- Being held in a strong, supportive container for 12 weeks together with other like-minded couples
- 1 x 90 min Introduction Call / Opening Ritual
- 1 x 3 hour long Tantric Massage Workshop
- 6 x 90 min live group coaching calls; bring your issue to the call and I will coach you live; other couples will benefit from seeing you working through challenges
- 6 x 90 min live men's and women's circle calls
- You will receive video lessons and guided recorded audio practices for three weeks at a time (9 weeks in total)
- Every 3 weeks, you'll have a break from the guided practices to catch up with content you have missed or deepen in a practice you loved; this will help you to keep up with the pace
Week 1: The Power of Choice
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Focus: This is a week of self-inquiry and self-reflection, as well as understanding your partner. You will study your core-activating negative beliefs, negative perception of your partner, attachment styles and trauma responses.
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Transformation: You will have more compassion with yourself and each other, and learn how work with triggers.
Week 2: Unconditional Love can Heal Everything
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Focus: We work on deepening safety and radical acceptance and unconditional self-love. Radical Acceptance is at the heart of Tantra. We also work on the future vision of your relationship by creating a Relationship Manifesto.
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Transformation:
Through meditation practices and guided visualisation, you will learn what it takes to be lovingly present with whatever occurs in the moment.
Week 3: Communicate Your Emotions Well
(Week 4 Integration Time)
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Focus: Overcome the fear of vulnerability, and step out of entitlement, DEFENCE, BLAME or CRITICISM by asking for your needs and cultivating gratitude. Create predictable safety in the way you communicate and have sex.
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Transformation: Establish a foundation of safety, which enables more vulnerability and authentic connection.
Week 5: Polarity Creates Attraction
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Focus: Learn the 4 Core Archetypes of Masculine and Feminine and assess which energies you find attractive or repulsive in yourself and others; receive practices that will help you to embody each of these Archetypes through your sexuality. This will impact your power-struggles and imbalances in power
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Transformation: Create or intensify attraction in each other through playing with different energies
Week 6: Boundaries & Differentiation
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Focus: Overcome enmeshment and embrace individuality through differentiation. This is the opposite of co-dependency. It is key to learn how to differentiate yourself especially if you have a tendency to step over your own boundaries or even betray your core values.
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Transformation: Foster healthy independence while maintaining a strong, connected partnership.
Week 7: Pleasure & Orgasm as Relationship Hack
(Week 8 Integration Time)
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Focus: Learn the 5 pillars of Holistic Sex to generate more pleasure that lasts longer and leads to ecstasy. Learn about different types of Orgasms. Learn how you can use pleasure to change your beliefs about yourself and each other, or just to have more fun. Start integrating appreciation rituals connected to pleasure into your relationship.
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Transformation: Shift power dynamics to create more balance and intensify attraction for each other.
Week 9: The Art of Turn-On
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Focus: Learn more about each others turn-ons, turn-offs, and how to use this information to create more opportunities for sex. Learn female and male anatomy and practices each of you can do to get more adversed in each others territory.
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Transformation: You will feel more ecstatic, more connected and playful.
Week 10: Desire without Fear
- Focus: You will learn more about the true nature of desire, how to communicate your sexual desires, and why this matters. Learn what it takes to overcome jealousy and step into a new sexual adventure together.
- Transformation: You will know more about your sexual preferences and how to make your sexual dreams come true.
Week 11: Letting go of separation
- Focus: Through energetic activations before and during sex, you will learn how to merge in spirit with each other. Learn to completely lose yourself in the act of sex and merge with the ecstatic bliss that is our true nature.
- Transformation: Strengthen your bond through sex that transcends your personality, increases your happiness and transforms your life.
Week 12: Building Community
You will be invited to form smaller coaching groups so that you can continue to have monthly check-ins and mutual support.
From 28th of September - 21st of December2024
WHY GROUP COACHING WORKS
Collective Wisdom:
The group has a collective wisdom. It often happens that someone shares something that takes the shame away for someone else who then has a transformational experience. Shared experiences, diverse perspectives, and varied solutions from other couples contribute to your learning. The people who come together often have gifts for each others transformation.
Mutual Learning:
You can learn not only from me, the Coach, but also from each other. Witnessing the progress and challenges of each other will provide you with valuable insights and inspiration.
Inspiration from Success Stories:
Success stories within the group inspire hope and motivation in others. Couples who are stuck witness real transformations in others, which helps them o see tangible evidence that positive change is possible. The more couples are showing up fully committed to this process, the more everyone in the group will commit.
Bonus 1: Devotional Tantric Massage Course for Couples
Bonus 2: Pleasure as Medicine Course
I'M BIBI.
I am a world class Sex and Relationship Coach, helping people to create soulmate relationships with a shamanic, tantric approach. I blend the newest relationship psychology with NLP, ritual, shamanism and tantra, conscious kink, shadow-work, meditation and visualisation practices.
I am a devotee of love. I have dedicated my life to learning how to increase my capacity to give and receive love in all relations.
It is through our relationships that we can grow more than we could on our own. We also can find greater love, compassion and understanding than we ever could on our own.
"Bibi is gifted. She intuitively sees what's going on and gave us exactly what we needed."
Peter - Previous Participant
"This course is like going to the relationshIp gym. I love how many different threads she weaves together, and how she made us practice. She truly embodies what she teaches."
Caroline - Previous Participant
"The course changed our relationship inside out and gives us a foundation to make it work. I would have been scared to move through the content on our own, because it goes deep. But Bibi was always there with us. I needed a private session with her as a top up which unlocked my greatest child-hood trauma. It had a big positive impact on our relationship.
Nick, Previous Participant
IS THIS COACHING PROGRAM RIGHT FOR YOU?
This Program is For Couples Ready to:
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Deepen connection and commitment: If you want to commit to self-awareness, personal growth, and building a relationship based on mutual respect, love, truth and understanding, this program is for you.
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Have the kind of sex that blows your mind: If you find yourselves yearning for more desire, electricity, magnetism and sexual intimacy, more tools and orgasm, this program is for you.
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Face challenges with grace: Whether you're feeling disconnected, struggling to change behavior, or encountering obstacles in your relationship, "Sacred Union" addresses these common challenges head-on and brings in new perspectives.
- Learn how to use relationships as tool for spiritual development: Whether you already are spiritual or want to heal your relationship to God/Goddess, this program helps you to make a connection between spiritual practice and your relationship.
WE ARE STARTING 28th OF SEPTEMBER
Group Coaching Times: Every other Sunday evening 5:30pm UK Time
Women's Circle Times: Every other Monday 5:30pm UK Time
Men's Circle Times: Every other Sunday 5:30pm UK Time
MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you aren’t completely satisfied with your Sacred Union Course, you can have a full refund. You have to prove that you have watched all the videos, participated in the coaching calls, and done all the practices. If you can provide me with that information, I will ask no questions and give you a full refund.